Can't Figure Them Out

Panda Tar · Unread postby **Panda Tar** » 26 Jun 2008, 20:15

CloudRiderX wrote:Get stuck in that, and you're finished.

Aye.

Some of friends suggested to me to be less polite and less friendly. Something like: "be a bad guy once or twice and they'll all crave for you". Wonder why.

winterfate · Unread postby **winterfate** » 27 Jun 2008, 01:52

@Panda: Most women love guys that can spice up their lives.

Of course, there's also a line between being a jerk and just being a bit bad (if done right, this is mostly harmless and very appealing to women. Being a jerk, on the other hand, is bad. No one likes a jerk.).

I'm still looking for that one lady that has the same passive personality I do (good luck to me...

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But, to answer your question like I was going to answer it...if you always act polite and friendly, women tend to get the idea that they can control you at will (which, for some reason is unappealing to them...

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Umm...ermmm...

I <read this topic's title here> either.

jeff4815 · Unread postby **jeff4815** » 27 Jun 2008, 04:25

Being a jerk, on the other hand, is bad. No one likes a jerk.).

Oddly enough, I beg to differ. At least it SEEMS like a couple girls like jerks.

Veldrynus · Unread postby **Veldrynus** » 27 Jun 2008, 07:01

winterfate wrote:No one likes a jerk.).

Read what I wrote before:

Veldrynus wrote:If a girl feels attracted to you, which is decided in the very first seconds to minutes (first impression), the ONLY way you can screw it, is being a wussy. You can even act like a jerk, and still keep all your chances!

Panda Tar · Unread postby **Panda Tar** » 27 Jun 2008, 11:42

Veldrynus wrote:If a girl feels attracted to you, which is decided in the very first seconds to minutes (first impression), the ONLY way you can screw it, is being a wussy. You can even act like a jerk, and still keep all your chances!

Yeah. I see that all the time.

Veldrynus · Unread postby **Veldrynus** » 27 Jun 2008, 12:56

Man, you're some big strong guy. With just a little bad boy attitude you could get ALL the chicks. That's like playing a game on easy.

jeff4815 · Unread postby **jeff4815** » 28 Jun 2008, 02:09

A bad boy attitude alone isn't enough to get a cornucopia of girls. At least not in my city.

winterfate · Unread postby **winterfate** » 28 Jun 2008, 02:21

jeff4815 wrote:Oddly enough, I beg to differ. At least it SEEMS like a couple girls like jerks.

Indeed...or at least they like the problematic type of guy. Just don't get it...I just don't get it...

I over-generalized by saying that NO ONE likes a jerk, but I get the feeling that if a woman could choose between two men with similar desirable traits and one is a jerk, she would pick the guy who's not a jerk (unless he's a wimp, which brings this discussion back to point A.

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@Vel: Read what I wrote now.

@Panda: Me too!

But, at least over here in Puerto Rico, true jerks are rare. The closest thing to jerks you usually see are the arrogant-types that think that they have a hot babe for a GF, so they insta-win, so you insta-lose...and I haven't seen one of those in a while.

And, Vel is right. I'm surprised you haven't gotten any ladies yet, just with your physique.

Women love guys with masculine features. (One would hope so, at least.

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Veldrynus · Unread postby **Veldrynus** » 28 Jun 2008, 19:18

jeff4815 wrote:A bad boy attitude alone isn't enough to get a cornucopia of girls.

winterfate wrote: I over-generalized by saying that NO ONE likes a jerk, but I get the feeling that if a woman could choose between two men with similar desirable traits and one is a jerk, she would pick the guy who's not a jerk (unless he's a wimp, which brings this discussion back to point A. ).

There is a difference between a bad boy and a jerk. The first one is closer to a rebel, while the second one...well, only a jerk. It's a different style. Don Corleone is a bad guy, Biff Tannen is a jerk. While the first one questions the concepts of good and evil, and has his\her own standards, the second one acts evil just for the fun of it (also trying to show dominance).

A none of these attitudes is enough on its OWN to attract women! This is important to mention. To simplify it:

High Attractiveness + Nice guy = Girls LOVE him for himself. He is the knight on the white horse. Very rare. Long relationship material, less efficient for one night stands.

Chances for him to get laid on short term: High.
Chances for him to get laid on long term: Very high.

High Attractiveness + Jerk = Girls LOVE him for his "real inner self, the one he does not show, but I'm sure, deep down there, he is a reeeally nice guy, with feeeeelings". Bullshit, but it really works.

Chances for him to get laid on short term: Very High.
Chances for him to get laid on long term: High.

Low Attractiveness + Nice Guy = "He is sooo niiice and cuuuute, and one of my best FRIENDS!" The poor bastard.

Chances for him to get laid on short term: Low.
Chances for him to get laid on long term: Average.

Low Attractiveness + Jerk = "He is such a pathetic jerk!"

Chances for him to get laid on short term: Very low.
Chances for him to get laid on long term: Low.

So, be attractive. Work on it goddammit!

Corribus · Unread postby **Corribus** » 28 Jun 2008, 19:32

Metathron · Unread postby **Metathron** » 28 Jun 2008, 20:35

How have you not yet been on Oprah?

ThunderTitan · Unread postby **ThunderTitan** » 29 Jun 2008, 13:32

Metathron wrote:How have you not yet been on Oprah?

He's too afraid of couches and jumping... (TCLTC)

winterfate · Unread postby **winterfate** » 30 Jun 2008, 00:58

@Vel:

Your last post also happens to be generally true.

CloudRiderX · Unread postby **CloudRiderX** » 04 Jul 2008, 03:24

Heh, why haven't you written a book on this subject, Veldrynus? You seem to have all the answers! You'd be rich!

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